I think the reason for clarity is two-fold though. My life is no longer overwhelmingly stressful--well, aside from work here and there--because school is out. Certainly that helps, but I have also stopped over-thinking every minute detail of life to align the universe in some sort of order because that's not actually how life works--or at least I don't think. Over-analysis is really a taxing habit that should be kicked because life is so, so sweet without it.
That being said, don't stop thinking all together. Remember to stand up for your beliefs still, because those mean something too. You still have to hold onto something, or you become nothing; and then what? Care more about how you feel about yourself than how someone perceives you. Granted that can be one of the hardest things to avoid because conforming helps you to advance sometimes. Comfort is far more important in many situations though. Love who you are because if you don't, the people around you aren't really loving who you want to be. Excuse the cliches...why are those so unavoidable in my rants?
Moral of the story: personality drives your social life while over-analysis drives people away. Simple.
Over and out.
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